____“If she doesn’t scare the hell out of you a little, she’s not the one”At first glance, this meme might seem to be implying that you need to only date emotionally unstable people.But if you sit with it for a moment, it takes on a whole other (and more important) layer of meaning.Online dating in midlife is unlikely to have been something that you ever thought you’d be doing, right? So, here are my top tips for embracing where you are now and dealing with your fear of midlife dating. This is all new and you aren’t expected to know what it’s going to be like.But remember; change only happens when you’re prepared to take a chance on doing something different.
Just when you expect them to run away (after having found out about your deepest, darkest secrets), they’ll tell you that they love you even more now that they know more about you. It’s also anxiety producing for the vast majority of people.
It’s not difficult to make an effort and stand out from the crowd with a few top tips.
I'm here to talk about those amazing relationships people dream of being in. They're the relationships that mend the broken pieces of your past, and they make you feel like you are actually going to be OK again.
Are you allowing yourself to get carried away with your thought pattern?
If so, try to notice the narrative that you’re telling yourself.
Have you already worked yourself up into an ‘it’s all going to go wrong’ frenzy?